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Retired and Inspired at 55
Thoughts and Musings on Early Retirement

Early Retirement Can be Yours
Welcome to my blog on early retirement. It took a lot of planning and discipline but I was able to retire at 55 in February 2020. I'll share how I did it, and my experiences in retirement.
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Softball
My team is well into our 14th softball season. It’s great to be back on the field, and it feels normal this year. Last year was a bit...

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Jun 13, 20223 min read


Disc Golf Restored My Faith in People
After my last post, I figured something more positive was called for……. Late last summer I had the joyful experience of visiting a Disc...

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Jun 6, 20224 min read
Wake-up Call
I normally stay away from politics in my posts but the rhetoric coming out of the Pennsylvania Republican primary elections made the...

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May 23, 20223 min read
10 minutes to Fill
You’re at a meeting in which your work is about to be shown to the entire office when you learn that the start will be delayed and you...

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May 16, 20222 min read
To Write or Not to Write
For me writing is a creative outlet that I enjoy and that I can do at my own pace. I’ve written a few articles for friends’ blogs, ghost...

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May 9, 20223 min read
You're In My Seat
We humans are creatures of habit and some of us can be over-the-top protecting “our space”. When we are defending what is actually ours...

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May 2, 20223 min read
Dancing in the Grocery Store
A couple of times since we got married I have surprised my wife by asking her to dance when our wedding song (Taking You Home) came on...

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Apr 25, 20222 min read
Side Trips During Business Travel
When I used to travel for business I took every opportunity to get out on my own to explore wherever the particular trip took me. Seeing...

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Apr 18, 20225 min read
Compliment the Chef
Sorry to anyone thinking this post would be about food. The focus is on letting people know when they have done a good job: chefs,...

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Apr 11, 20224 min read
Get Back Out There!
This post was inspired by the near-empty local Irish pub on St. Patrick’s Day and finally getting to see a good friend I had not seen in...

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Apr 4, 20223 min read
Age Discrimination is Real
This is a topic I have debated about covering for a long time but avoided due to the sensitivity of the subject. However, after having...

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Mar 28, 20223 min read
Retirement Transition Can Be Tougher Than You Think
While working, retirement may seem like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, but beware, there is a leprechaun guarding that pot of...

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Mar 21, 20223 min read
Retirement Hair - or - You Gotta Have a Sense of Humor
This is a follow-up to one of my early posts “Almost Cut My Hair”. Many Native American tribes believe that a person’s long hair...

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Mar 14, 20224 min read
Set Your Own Pace
After moving at my own pace in the warmth and sun of the FL. Keys for 10 days I’m back in NJ - but still moving at my own pace. A big...

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Mar 7, 20223 min read
Connections
Happy Valentine’s Day to all of you reading this on posting day! This post was inspired by a friend in conversations for a project we are...

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Feb 14, 20223 min read
Know Your Limitations
The most recent snow storm reminded me of my changing limitations as I get older. This is not a post about giving up on yourself or the...

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Feb 7, 20223 min read
You Gotta Relax
I’ve written a lot about the importance of staying active, both physically and mentally, and figured it’s time to cover another aspect –...

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Jan 31, 20222 min read
Ask the Locals
This post was inspired by advice we received while in south Jersey for my wife’s birthday when we asked our bartender where she goes to...

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Jan 24, 20223 min read
What’s Your Quest?
I’ve written before about the importance of staying active – both physically and mentally – and about having purpose, and I figured the...

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Jan 17, 20223 min read
Don’t Let the New Year be the Same as the Old Year
Let me start by saying I hope everyone was able to be with friends and family to celebrate the holidays and the arrival of the new year,...

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Jan 10, 20223 min read
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